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it is unfortunate, but i have to let everyone know that my photostream is not working on Flickr. It appears that my photoset as intended is not being displayed. It appears that Flickr is down 
Please be patient and hopefully Fickr will get everything in order to see you can see the pictures that i offered in my last post
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My objective of having this blog is to gain encouragement and fresh ideas on how i can become the best submissive i can be to my Wife and Mistress. The emails and comments i have recieved truly have encouraged me and i am grateful for the traffic i have been receiving and the encouraging comments i am receiving, not to mention that my Mistress is very pleased lately of my behavior as a result.
Since i feel like i am gaining some new friends i thought i would share a little more about me and my Mistress. i have uploaded more photos in my flickr photostream which can be accessed either through this link or at any time on my side bar of this blog.
Let me know what you think!
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Something i came across while doing my blog reads. Looks like a fascinating film. Does any one know when this will be coming out and where? Will this really be coming to a theater near you?
Filed under: Journal, Kinky Links, Scene Ideas | Tags: bondage, Caging, femdom, mistress, Restraint, Submission
i was on Mrs Kelly’s Playouse blog and read a wonderful entry by scott there on what cages do to a submissive. It certainly made my mind race. Long time ago, back before Mistress and i had any kids we used to use one of those foldable dog cages and on a whim my Mistress would collar me and locked me in the cage while she watched TV or played on the computer. if for some reason there was punishment, she would ensure there was no blanket on the bottom of the cage so i had to sit my naked body down on the cold metal of the cage. it did get a little chilly.
One of the things she never did was leave the house with me caged in case of a fire. Still that thought still remains a fantasy of mine to be locked in a cage while Mistress goes out shopping for the afternoon. The interesting thing about caging is that it sounds so exciting to do it, but when it comes right down to it, being locked in a cage and left is very boring. (i guess thats why they may call it punishment) But i can see how being left and made to watch your Mistress enjoy herself would be much more interesting or perhaps a reward?
A subby can only dream, cause i can’t see myself being locked in cage in a very long while.
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i am having trouble sleeping tonight and it really has nothing to do with the fact that i am incredibly frustrated sexually. the trouble of sleeping is coming from the fact that i am at the cross roads in my career and not sure what to do, what direction to take and how to handle the soap opera that is the office i work in. what i am saying is nothing new to everyone here, we all are faced with these challenges in life. i am very grateful i have a Mistress and when i am in her presence, on my knees, all my problems seem to melt away and i simply savor the moment of enjoying her every being.
Its also wonderful when she can take you away from all the stresses of life by having a good bondage or edge scene. i think this is exactly what the doctor is ordering. We shall see fro at the end of the day it is all about her, my Mistress.
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well its only been a day and half into the week, which also means a day and a half in my chastity device. you see i am having a “slow day” work isn’t too busy, not much really going on today so i find my mind drifting into realms of intense experiences. This isn’t really a good thing being that my genitals are safely locked away and i can’t do anything about it.
So for those of you out there.. please don’t give me any more ideas 
i want to continue on the theme of living the 24.7 femdom lifestyle despite the challenges and moods that life throws at us. This post is being written as an inspiration to the brilliance of the comments written by both Mrs Claudia and Tom Allen on my previous post. Mrs Claudia’s words of wisdom included “Focus your mind on ways you can enhance her life or something extra you can do to make her day easier. Remember, this lifestyle of D/s is a gift from her.” and Tom wrote “Stop thinking about what you’re missing, i.e., wanking, and try to focus on being more, uh, focused”
So with that i have decided that each week i will take an element of my Mistress’s life and attempt to make that element easier for her. On a household management level:
1. Accelerating her organizational tools (coordinating her planner, organizing her clothes, and getting home on time from work)
2. Ensuring our Bedroom is always in tip-top organized state so that in the morning she always knows where her clothes are for the day.
3. Always ensuring her stuff is put away when she comes home, and encouraging her to drop everything when she gets home only for me to clean up after her.
4. Create a schedule to ensure laundry, bills, cleaning and baths for kids is always done on a specific day.
On an “inner need” level:
1. Tell her that she is the most important Person in the world to you and are not worthy of her attention
2. Thank her for controlling your orgasm in making you a better man (thank you Mrs Claudia)
3. Kneel before her before bed time, requesting permission to come into her bed
4. Focus on listening to her every word and command aiming to never missing a thing (wow am i shooting high)
These elements are simple things i can do to make the life of my Mistress that much better and my job as a submissive that much more rewarding.
What do you do to focus on your Mistress’s needs?
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After a grueling week locked in my chastity device and spending much of that time juggling work, family and of course plenty of service to my Mistress i was let out of my device for a weekend furlough. The device will be placed back on at the beginning of the work week being Monday.
My Mistress has been fighting a brutal cold and i have been doing my best to ensure her needs are met and the kids are taken care of. Yet, still i can manage to wake up in the morning sometimes being in a foul mood. This obviously does not impress Mistress which leads either to longer lock down periods or being completely “ignored” sexually. i find when i am locked in my cb-6000 it is easier for me to maintain my cheerful, submissive disposition, but when on furlough it creeps away? Don’t get me wrong, i do experience bad mornings with my device on, especially if i have had no sleep but for some reason i can handle it better. i am thus faced with a conundrum, am i faced with a life being locked up with no break? but.. everyone needs a break once in a while?
My question to all of you is how do you maintain your zone of submission when outside of the cage?
